Saturday, December 23, 2006

About blaming other things/people as an excuse for retiring from life

What about it?

well,

you shouldn't do it.

beecaaauuuse,

When you tell someone that they are the reason of your sadness/procrastination etc. you're actually saying that the person is in control your life. It's like turning yourself into a victim. If they're on a good day and happen to be nice to you, then you can be happy with their consent. If they do something you don't like, you end up feeling exactly the opposite. It's also very unrealistic to be so demanding from your environment. Everything is obligated to happen a certain way to ensure your happiness. Taking responsibilty for our actions is taking back the control of our lives. Other people don't make us the way we are. Only ourselves are responsible for our actions. We should know better than to beg happiness from others because most of the time we cannot change or prevent other people's actions.

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